In this special Father’s Day guest post, food allergy dad Dave Leyrer discusses why all dads need to be educated about food allergies. Dave partnered with another food allergy dad, Pete Najarian, to start Skeeter Snacks, a line of cookies and snacks made specifically for those with tree nut and peanut allergies.
Tell us about your family and the food allergies affecting your family.
My wife and I have two children, and our 4-year-old son Remy is allergic to tree nuts and peanuts. Pete and his wife have two kids as well and his 12-year-old daughter Abby is also allergic to tree nuts and peanuts.
How do you manage food allergies in your family? What have been your biggest challenges?
At different ages you employ different strategies. With Remy we teach his older sister to be his advocate and protector as he learns what to avoid. Abby is older so the challenges are different—with pre-teens the job seems to be more about getting her to slow down and remember her allergies and to avoid peer pressure.
What advice would you give to other dads with kids with food allergies?
This is a team effort, and dads have to be as involved as moms. For example, dads who coach sports are often responsible for snack decisions for an entire team, and on most teams there are a variety of different allergies that need to be addressed. We think that all dads need to know about food allergies because whether their kids are allergic or not they are probably going to be tasked with providing snacks for allergic kids at one point or another.
Studies have shown that moms and dads react differently to food allergies in their families. In your experience, is that the case?
There’s a perception that guys are a bit lazier on the margin, so some might think that dads don’t take it as seriously as we should. But in our experience dads are really on top of things. Pete and I probably take it more seriously than some dads considering we started a company that makes the kind of products we couldn’t find for our kids! Remy and Abby are the reasons we started Skeeter Snacks. We were frustrated consumers; we couldn’t believe that a brand didn’t exist that made it easy to be safe.
From all of us at FARE, we’d like to wish a Happy Father’s Day to Pete, Dave, and all food allergy dads!
EDITOR’s NOTE: Skeeter Snacks is a FARE Corporate Partner and their products can be found at many of our FARE Walks for Food Allergy.